Sunday, November 28, 2010

Music Time

I liked the music of Khelein hum jeen jaan sey...i first thought that it was a creation of A.R. Rahman...but later came to know that its by a newcomer called Sohail Sen...Good job Sohail
Though his earlier one "Whats your Rashee" was sad...this time he hasnt repeated his mistake :)

Even songs of Guzaarish are nice, but you need to create an environment to listen to those songs
These are not FM kind of songs but they are definitely soothing to the core

Btw, I found the songs of Tees Mark Khan very silly!!!

Taken for Granted?

Sometimes its very sad when people take you for granted!
Thats what one of my fren said during our chat over a coffee
I think thats the time when one needs to take a pause, at times one starts feeling that there is no point, being good when the other person takes your goodness for granted. Its sad when the person doing is this is the one who means the world to you
Well I was just pondering on that matter
Its true, at times yes our family, friends,relatives do take us for granted.
How does one manage it?
I just keep quiet during those situations and try to forget it ASAP
But does that work always?It has till date :)

Back to Blogging


Been 6 months since I posted my random thoughts

High time!!!

So here's to blogging

Girls : Equally responsible for Dowry system

I hate 'Dowry system' but above all I hate girls who support this system
I have seen so many girls who are well educated, have a good job, but during their marriage, when their parents offer gold,car etc etc to the grooms parents, they never open their mouth...don't give me the usual dialogue ' we don't have a say in this'
Puhleease you are educated, have a job of your own...don't tell me you cannot voice your opinion? infact I personally feel such girls don't want to voice on this matter...many a times i see girls after marriage comparing with each other on what their parents have given
I am so proud of those very very few girls who voice their opinion...wish we had more of them, atleast then the dreaded system of Dowry could reduce in India
What is the key factor here??? nope its not education coz if that was the case then Dowry would not be prevalent in educated masses..but dowry is prevalent to a very large extent in well to do educated families as well
What do you think where are we lacking?
To start with, I feel when a girl has a boy child...she should make him aware of not taking dowry.....and when he gets married, she should genuinely not take anything from her daughter-in-law....i feel that when more people takes up this approach then after few years we can see India free of dowry
I know its easily said......however I really feel that girls who are educated should make use of their education and not support this foolish system!!!
I feel if only every girl genuinely feel how wrong this system is, will this system be eradicated in future...Whats your say???

Back to Bengaluru

This blog should have been written couple of months back...wee precisely 6 months back, thoough I had posted the same in one of my blogs, i have forgotten that site and so am reposting the same
Its been a long time since I have posted something on personal front
2009 was great for us. We had a gala time in Mumbai…loved visiting new places in and around Mumbai during weekends…K had a gala time, he started going to a preschool and has now started socializing very well {I sometime miss his mama chipkoo days!:)}
I had joined a startup and that was a definite learning experience!
In Mumbai we shifted twice as we wanted to avoid traveling while going to work. We couldn’t have asked for more as work area was close by, however, even though we stayed in a nice apartments, somewhere something was missing…we were missing going to our native place...when we were in Bangalore, we used to visit Kerala/Chennai atleast once in two months but after reaching Mumbai, the frequency reduced…even my parents and in-laws visited Mumbai just twice as distance was an issue
K developed running nose on a permanent basis…though I never gave him medicines but it was obvious that pollution was the cause…with loads of construction happening near to our place, we were always surrounded by a blanket of dust
Hubby’s career was going on well, but even he wanted to get back and that’s when we took up the decision of coming back to Bangalore
Thankfully we both got a very very good opportunity at that moment, and here we are Back with a bang in good ol’ BangaloreJ
Life couldn’t be better…I am enjoying, settling down and my heart sings It’s a wonderful wonderful life……